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WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS(विजेता और हारने वाले )

Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.           

                                                                         --St. Francis of Assisi


Start Your Day with  a Positive

Read or listen to something positive first thing in the morning. After a good night's sleep we are relaxed and our subconscious is receptive. It sets the tone for the day, and puts us in the right frame of mind to make every day a positive day.

Practice having positive thoughts and behavior daily until they

become a habit.

The best thing through which we can start our day by  listening Quran the word of Allah or reading Quran with translation .If  We 
do every day it became our habbit and our life will be changed.














And Stay Away from Negative Influences 

WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse

The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
The Loser says, "That is not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer

The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.

Winners say, "I must do something";
Losers say, "Something must be done."

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.


Winners believe in win-win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.

Winners plan and prepare to win.
The key word is preparation










                                            
*As mentioned in Jerry Johnson's book It's Killing Our Kids, p. xvi.



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जो आवश्यक है, उसे करना शुरू करें, फिर  संभव चीज को करे, और अचानक आप असंभव को पूरा कर ने लगेंगे ।

एक सकारात्मक के साथ अपने दिन की शुरुआत करें


सुबह सबसे पहले कुछ सकारात्मक पढ़ें या सुनें। एक अच्छी रात की नींद के बाद हम आराम करते हैं और हमारा अवचेतन ग्रहणशील होता है। यह दिन के लिए टोन सेट करता है, और हमें हर दिन को एक सकारात्मक दिन बनाने के लिए मन के सही फ्रेम में रखता है।

प्रतिदिन सकारात्मक विचार और व्यवहार करने का अभ्यास करें जब तक एक आदत न बन जाये ।

सबसे अच्छी बात जिसके माध्यम से हम अपने दिन की शुरुआत कर ससकते हैं वह हैं कुरान(जो  अल्लाह की किताब हैं) सुन सकते हैं या अनुवाद के साथ कुरान पढ़ सकते हैं। यदि हम हर दिन ऐसा करते हैं तो यह हमारी आदत बन जाये गी और हमारा जीवन बदल जाएगा।

और नकारात्मक प्रभावों से दूर रहें

विजेताओं  और हारने वाले

विजेता हमेशा जवाब का हिस्सा होता है;
हारने वाला हमेशा समस्या का हिस्सा होता है।

विजेता हमेशा एक कार्यक्रम है;
हारने वाला का हमेशा एक बहाना होता है

विजेता कहता है, "मुझे तुम्हारे लिए करने दो";
हारने वाला,कहता ये  "यह मेरा काम नहीं है।"

विजेता हर समस्या का जवाब देखता है;
हारने वाला हर उत्तर के लिए एक समस्या देखता है

विजेता कहता है, "यह मुश्किल हो सकता है लेकिन यह संभव है";
हारने वाला, "यह संभव हो सकता है लेकिन यह बहुत मुश्किल है।"

जब एक विजेता गलती करता है, तो वह कहता है, "मैं गलत था";
जब एक हारने वाला गलती करता है, तो वह कहता है, "यह मेरी गलती नहीं थी।"

एक विजेता प्रतिबद्धता बनाता है;
एक हारने वाला वादा करता है।

विजेताओं के सपने हैं;
हारने वालों की योजनाएं हैं।

विजेता कहते हैं, "मुझे कुछ करना चाहिए";
हारने वाला कहते हैं, "कुछ किया जाना चाहिए।"

विजेता टीम का हिस्सा हैं;
हारने वाला टीम से अलग हैं।

विजेताओं को लाभ मिलता है;
हारने वालों का दर्द देखा।

विजेता संभावनाएं देखते हैं;
हारने वालों की समस्याएं देखते हैं।

जीतने वाले जीत में विश्वास करते हैं;
हारने वालों का मानना ​​है कि किसी को हारना है।

विजेता बनते हैं;
हारने वालों को होने दो।

विजेता योजना बनाते हैं और जीतने की तैयारी करते हैं।
कुंजी शब्द तैयारी है

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