Enjoy Your Life

Today's teenagers learn from adult behavior and the media. They face peer pressure. Peer pressure is not just limited to teenagers, it is also prevalent in adults. It shows a lack  of self-esteem when people do not have the courage to say "No, thank you," and stay  away from negative influences:  What are the negative influences? Every one should stay away from these negative influences like negative thinking people or who have bad habit like drinking,smoking etc. 1 . Negative People Life is full of surprises and so are people. Live a life that is filled with people who will build you up, and say goodbye to those who tear you down. Stay away from negative thinking people. We all want to live happy lives   and be surrounded by genuine people--people who care about us in our personal and professional lives. In a nutshell, we want to be in good company, which is completely natural. Being in good company gives meaning to our lives. We have the power  to wisely choo

T here was a hunter who bought a bird dog,( the dog which hunt bird ). That  could walk on water.  He couldn't believe his eyes when he saw this miracle.   At the  same time, he was very pleased that he could show off his new acquisition to his friends.  He invited a friend to go duck hunting. After some time, they shot a few ducks and the  man ordered his dog to run and fetch the birds.  All day-long, the dog ran on water and  kept fetching the birds.  The owner was expecting    a comment or a compliment about his  amazing dog, but never got one.   As they were returning home, he asked his friend if he  had noticed anything unusual about his dog. The friend replied "Yes, in fact, I did notice  something unusual. Your dog can't swim." Some people criticize no matter what. It does not matter which side you are on, they are always on the other side.They criticize as if they will win a prize at a contest.They will find fault with every person and every situation. Yo

There is a story about a man who sold pizza and burger by the roadside. He was illiterate, so he never read  newspapers . He was hard of hearing, so he never listened to the radio. His eyes were weak, so he never watched television. But enthusiastically, he sold lots of pizza and burger. His sales and profit went up. He ordered more meat and got himself a bigger and a better stove. As his business was growing, the son, who had recently graduated from college, joined his father. Then something strange happened. The son asked, "Dad, aren't you aware of the great recession that is coming our way?" The father replied, "No, but tell me about it." The son said, "The international situation is terrible. The domestic is even worse. We should be prepared for the coming bad time." The man thought that since his son had been to college, read the papers, and listened to the radio, he ought to know and his advice should not be taken lightly. So the next day, the f

There was a man who made a living selling balloons at a fair.  He had all colors of  balloons, including red, yellow, blue, and green. Whenever business was slow, he would  release a helium-filled balloon into the air and when the children saw it go up, they all  wanted to buy one. They would come up to him, buy a balloon, and his sales would go up  again. He continued this process all day. One day, he felt someone tugging at his jacket. He turned around and saw a little boy who asked, "If you release a black balloon, would  that also fly?"  Moved by the boy's concern, the man replied with empathy, "Son, it is not  the color of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it go up." The same thing applies to our lives. It is what is inside that counts. The thing inside of us  that makes us go up is our attitude. Someone once approached Blaise Pascal, the famous French philosopher and said, "If I had your brains, I would be a bette

There was a farmer in Africa who was happy and content. He was happy because he was content. He was content because he was happy. One day a wise man came to him and told him about the glory of diamonds and the power that goes along with them. The wise man said, "If you had a diamond the size of your thumb, you could have your own city. If you had a diamond the size of your fist, you could probably own your own country." And then he went away. That night the farmer couldn't sleep. He was unhappy and he was discontent. He was unhappy because he was discontent and discontent because he was unhappy. The next morning he made arrangements to sell off his farm, took care of his family and went in search of diamonds. He looked all over Africa and couldn't find any. He looked all through Europe and couldn't find any. When he got to Spain, he was emotionally, physically and financially broke. He got so disheartened that he threw himself into the Barcelona River and committ

Why is it that some people’s discussions end in argument while others may discuss the same subject and end their discussion in a friendly manner? It has everything to do with the skills of holding a discussion. Why is it that when two people deliver the same sermon with the same words, you find that among the audience of the first person someone is yawning or sleeping, another is playing with a prayer mat, and others are repeatedly shifting, whilst the audience listening to the second are listening attentively to the sermon, such that they cannot even blink an eyelid nor of what is being said? It has everything to do with oratory skills. Why is it when so-and-so speaks in a gathering, everyone listens to him attentively and focuses on him, whereas when someone else speaks, they began to talk about other side issues and start reading their text messages? It has everything to do with the skills of verbal communication. Why is it when one school teacher walks through the